A Fat Girl's Take on "Healthcare Reform"


When I first heard the words “Affordable Care Act” and a brief explanation of its intent, my initial reaction was “sounds like a good thing – everyone should have health care they can afford”.  It sounded good, in theory, but I wondered how it would end up affecting my family’s health care.

Health insurance has always been a sticky issue in my family.  Since my husband, Ken, was self-employed, at the beginning of our marriage, our insurance was purchased through my job.  Due to some unexpected circumstances, I left that job just before our first son was born.  We were able to continue that insurance through a COBRA policy, at a much higher rate.  After Jesse was born and we knew he and I were both healthy, we dropped the COBRA policy because of the high cost. 

Somewhere between the births of our first and second sons, we were able to get a hospital policy, but it covered virtually NOTHING, it just got us in the door if we needed treatment.  It was only after Benjamin arrived and we saw how little the policy paid on the maternity costs that Ken even considered that we even needed health insurance.  He had always been a healthy man, so he had never needed insurance.  He was also a “cash-only” kind of fellow.  His motto was, “If you don’t have the money in your pocket for it today, you don’t NEED it today.”  That included going to the doctor.  When he realized how many bills we incurred during the birth of Benjamin, Ken began to see that health insurance could be a good thing.  Luckily for us, at about this time, BCBS was offering policies for self-employed families at group rates.  We applied and were approved.

We kept that policy for the rest of our married life together.  Ken would complain from time to time about the cost, but he never tried to get me to cancel it.  Later on, when Ken was diagnosed with cancer, the policy was an absolute God-send.  But even with BCBS paying like they should, during the first year of Ken’s illness, we paid roughly $12,000 out-of-pocket.  It really would have been devastating if we hadn’t had the coverage.

After Ken died, the boys and I moved to Alabama to be closer to my family.  I contacted BCBS of AL and asked them if we could transfer our coverage from TN to AL.  They said we would have to apply for a new policy.  Well, since I am a fat girl, they refused to cover me, except for one of the hospital policies that doesn’t cover anything except getting you through the door.  Said the only reason they even offered me that is because I was coming from another state with a BCBS policy.  The good news was that they agreed to write regular policies on Jesse and Benjamin. 

A few years later, BCBS began running an open-enrollment for a policy that required no medical underwriting.  It was a much better policy than the one I had, and of course the cost was much higher, but I didn’t feel as I really had a choice but to apply for it.  So I did.  BCBS had to accept me… it was open-enrollment.  During the 4 to 5 years I had that policy, I think the premiums increased at least 4 times, and the policies for Jesse and Benjamin increased at least twice.  I was paying $500 per month for our health insurance, which was a LARGE percentage of this single mom’s take-home pay.

That is when I started hearing about the “Affordable Care Act”.  I worried about my premiums going up again.  After all, I knew that SOMEBODY would have to pay for all the people who would now have to have insurance, but didn’t have the money to pay for it, but there was really nothing I could do about that.  Our president was assuring us that if we were happy with our current policies, we could “keep them … no matter what” (remember when he told THAT lie?).  So, I figured I would just keep what we had and hope the premiums would not go up too dramatically. (Eyeball roll … head slap … HEAVY SIGH.  How could I have been so naïve?)

Around the end of September, the dreaded information packets from BCBS arrived.  I was astounded by what I read!  My policy alone was going to almost double in cost each month!  The policies Jesse and Benjamin had were no longer going to exist (remember, these are the policies that the president said we could keep) and the premiums of the most comparable policy would be a full third more than their old premiums had been.  And of course, coverage in all three policies was not as good and deductibles were much larger.  I immediately called BCBS because the info packet also said that I might be eligible for some sort of subsidy or tax credit to help pay my premiums.  Well, they said the only way I could find out if I was eligible would be to go on the healthcare.gov website and fill out an application.  (We all remember the amazingly infamous rollout of that particular website, don’t we?!)  Anyway, at this point, I felt that I was in effect, being held hostage.  I couldn’t afford to keep the insurance I already had, and the only way to find out if I could get help paying for the premiums was to sign up through the Marketplace.  And there would be no other insurance companies offering better prices, because in my county of AL, BCBS was the only game in town.  No other companies opted into the program.  SHEESH!!    

I went on the website, or at least I tried to… I think it took about 2 weeks before I was finally able to create an account and get to the application process.  Some of the steps in the application were confusing, so I tried to “live chat” with a representative.  FORGET THAT!!  I finally called the telephone number and spoke with several very friendly representatives who obviously knew less about the Affordable Care Act and the healthcare.gov website than I did.  I felt very sorry for them, truthfully.  They were very pleasant, but they just didn’t know the answers to my questions.  They didn’t know the answers because they had not been properly trained.  They weren’t properly trained because NOBODY KNOWS WHAT THE HECK THE ACA MEANS AND/OR HOW TO PROPERLY APPLY FOR COVERAGE THROUGH THE WEBSITE!!!!! (Whew!  Please excuse that little explosion… let me continue…) 

So, I finally filled out the application as best I could.  I hit the “review and apply” button and immediately got an ERROR MESSAGE!!  I called the number again and spoke with a couple of different representatives who apologized about the “few glitches” in the system and told me to sign out, wait a while and try again.  Well, that went on for the better part of another two weeks.  In the meantime, Jesse, my older son, signed up for health insurance through his employer, but didn’t tell me.  So when I finally got the button to work, the information was now incorrect.  It also said that Benjamin, my younger son, was eligible for Medicaid.  But by this time, he was two weeks away from his 18th birthday, which would make him too old for that program. I clicked the “edit” button so I could go in and correct my information.  You guessed it… another error message!!  SIGH… so I called the number again.  I told them all of my troubles and said I needed to either delete the application I had filled out and start over again, or edit the info that was there.  They couldn’t figure out how to do that either.  Said they would send a request to their “Advanced Resolutions Center” and someone would call back and help me within 5 business days.  That was the first of three times I called and was referred to ARC.  NO ONE EVER CALLED ME BACK!!  In the meantime, a “delete application” button appeared on the website.  I tried it and POOF!  My application disappeared. 

So, I began again.  Put in all the correct info and with baited breath, hit the “review and apply” button.  I think I only had to log out and sign back in three times this time before it actually worked.  It said that I actually did qualify for a subsidy that would enable me to get a better policy than the one I had for a little less than I was already paying.  It also said that Benjamin qualified for AL All Kids insurance, which covers dependent children through age 19.  Great, right?  Well, I immediately contacted All Kids and they said, “if the marketplace said he is eligible for coverage, then he will be covered as of January 1st”.  Said that the marketplace would be sending along Benjamin’s information and they would send out an insurance card.  I asked if there was anything else I needed to do.  “No”, they said.  “All is well.”  Just so you know… if a government agency tells you that all is well, you should probably NOT believe them.

My new insurance began on January 1st, I got my new insurance card and the subsidy worked the way they said it should, so I was all set.  I was still waiting on Benjamin’s new card and the information from All Kids.  I waited, and waited, and WAITED SOME MORE.  The website showed that they had B’s application, but it never showed that he was covered.  The only way to check on the status of the application was to call All Kids in Montgomery.  I lost track of how many times I was “lost in the land of hold” for so long that I finally gave in and hung up the phone.  If I ever did get to speak to a person, they always blamed healthcare.gov for the delay.  If I called healthcare.gov, they always blamed All Kids.  It quickly became obvious that neither agency knew the status of Benjamin’s application and neither of them particularly cared whether or not he was covered.

Now, it is the end of February.  I stopped paying the BCBS premiums at the end of December, and no one can tell me if Benjamin is covered, so I have been holding my breath that he would not get sick or injured until All Kids can get their act together.  Yesterday, I FINALLY get a letter from All Kids and I’m almost rejoicing.  I open it up and see the following sentence, “We are sorry to inform you that it doesn’t appear that your child is eligible for this program.  Our records indicate that he is covered under private health insurance.” WHAT THE HECK???!!!!  And then it hits me… when I began this whole process, waaaaay back in September, he was covered still under BCBS.  Because they told me that he would be eligible for All Kids and I couldn’t afford to continue the insurance through BCBS, I let that policy lapse.  So, as of January 1st, Benjamin HAD NO INSURANCE!!!!  But between two government agencies, no one can figure that out!!! 

I’ve been hitting my head against this wall for so long now, that I just don’t know what to do anymore.  The last three times I spoke to a real person at All Kids, they said, “it could take another 4 weeks”, so I really don’t even want to try getting them to understand that yes, when we started this whole crazy debacle, Benjamin did have insurance, but no, he does not have insurance NOW, because they said he was eligible for All Kids.  So I called BCBS to see if I had any options with them.  They said I have two:  1) go to healthcare.gov (AGAIN) and make a new application for Benjamin, which could take another month or two to go through, or 2) reinstate the old policy at the new expensive price by paying for the two months that have already passed and the one that is due tomorrow.  REALLY??!! 

So here I am, being held hostage once more.  It would take two months to get a new policy for Benjamin in place.  He will be graduating from high school in two and a half months and will be going into the Army.  By the time I got him covered with a new policy, he would be graduated and gone.  So my only real choice is to pay three months’ premiums (that I really don’t have) to reinstate the old policy. 

Mr. Obama, I don’t know, for some folks your “signature legislation” may be a good thing.  But for this fat widowed single-mom, working as hard as she can to make a living and pay her bills, there is NOTHING affordable about it!! L